Working Mama

by Lisa on August 2, 2012

There are some days when I feel good about being a working mom.  I know how much I am helping my family by going back to work.  I can be in the office, talk with my coworkers, do my job and not get caught up in the fact that I’m not with Caroline at the moment.  Then there are days like today.  When I just want to be at home playing with my baby. Hearing her laugh and looking at her gorgeous face all day long.  When I cry as I walk out the door.

Being a working mom is the hardest thing I’ve ever done.  And I do it over and over again, five days a week.

I feel like I’m constantly being pulled in different directions.  At work, I want to be at home.  When I’m home, I wonder if I did a good enough job at work.  Then there are all of the everyday things that need to be done.  Will I have enough time that night to do laundry? Can I get in a quick workout?  And why oh why is my dishwasher always full?

It’s not hard to look around the internet and find mommy bloggers.  As much as I love reading the accounts of stay at home moms and getting ideas for things to do with Caroline, I find it hard to relate to them.  I think they’d probably have a hard time relating to me too–our life experiences, in so many ways the same, are also vastly different.  I want to read blogs by other working moms, moms that are doing what I am doing–being the best mother they can be to their kids while working a full time job and fitting in some activities for themselves too.  I wanted a place to compile these working mom accounts to share and gather tips for how to make it all work.  I haven’t yet found exactly what I’m looking for, so I decided to create it.

I put together a set of questions for working moms to answer.  I posted it on Facebook and Twitter and was so excited to find that so many working moms want to participate!

Here’s how it’s going to work.  Once a week, I will publish the story of a working mom, blogger or not.  As stories are published, they will live on the Working Mamas page, found on the right of the menu bar.

If you’re a working mama and you’d like to have your story published, simply fill out the form on the Working Mamas page, then send me an e-mail thesplatteredapron@gmail.com with a photo to go with your post.

My hope is that by sharing these stories these working moms will feel supported and loved.  At the end of the day, can we ask for anything more than that?

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emily August 2, 2012 at 8:21 am

Awesome, Lisa!

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Lisa August 2, 2012 at 10:54 pm

Thanks, Emily!

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Katie August 2, 2012 at 9:07 am

This is so exciting! Can’t wait to start reading about fellow working mama’s!

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Lisa August 2, 2012 at 10:54 pm

There are some great stories coming your way!

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Anne August 2, 2012 at 10:07 am

You are so brave lady. You are making the best choices for your baby inspired by love and that’s all that matters :)

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Lisa August 2, 2012 at 10:54 pm

Thank you, Anne, that means a lot to me!

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Lindsay @ The Lean Green Bean August 2, 2012 at 10:36 am

great ideas for a series! you and all the other working moms out there AMAZE me every day.
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Lisa August 2, 2012 at 10:53 pm

Aww, thanks, Lindsay, you are so sweet! I just wish I had your energy to get some more workouts in.

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Amanda Perry @ Sistas of Strength August 2, 2012 at 11:50 am

Excited to read these! :)
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Lisa August 2, 2012 at 10:53 pm

Yaay! Thanks for participating, Amanda!

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Hallie@ChasingHallie August 2, 2012 at 11:57 am

This is great! Can’t wait to read the stories.
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Lisa August 2, 2012 at 10:52 pm

Thanks, Hallie!

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Erika August 2, 2012 at 12:26 pm

Yes! Thank you. I have absolutely nothing against stay-at-home-moms but reading about their days at home all day with their kids is almost depressing (and I’m jealous!). I don’t doubt that they are busy all day either but being a working mom makes it a little harder to find the time to spend time with your kids, your husband, yourself, laundry, cooking, etc. Our son goes to bed around 7:30 and I don’t get home until 4:00 – that’s only a few short hours a day with the love-of-my-life. Anyways, I’m happy and excited about this working moms thing and look forward to reading about their lives.

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Lisa August 2, 2012 at 10:52 pm

I know how you feel–I get jealous too! That’s part of why I’m doing this, so working mamas can come together and support each other.

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Julie August 2, 2012 at 12:48 pm

Great idea & can’t wait to read the posts! Still have a few years until i’m confronted w/ this, but already nervous about it.
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Lisa August 2, 2012 at 10:51 pm

I always worried about it too, I hope that reading about other women’s experiences helps you too!

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lindsay August 3, 2012 at 12:46 pm

This is me, too! I am not there yet, but I do think about how I will manage it all, happily and successfully someday. So, I am excited to read!

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Lisa August 3, 2012 at 8:39 pm

Yaay! I hope you pick up some good tips!

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Christine @ Love, Life, Surf August 2, 2012 at 2:31 pm

So excited for this series Lisa! Looking forward to connecting with other working moms.
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Lisa August 2, 2012 at 10:50 pm

Me too! Thanks for participating, Christine.

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Darin Armstrong August 2, 2012 at 6:32 pm

Hello Lisa,
Just a quick message to ask if you would be interested in a ‘mutual’ following on twitter. I am currently following you now and am awaiting for your follow-back if you indeed decide to do so… (#FYI I do RT’s for all #Triathletes #Cyclists #UltraRunners & #Marathoners who follow me on Twitter and have something important they want mentioned…)

All the very best to you and yours for the rest of 2012 and beyond Lisa. Hope to hear back from you…

Darin
twitter.com/DarinArmstrong
Team LIVESTRONG

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Lisa August 2, 2012 at 10:50 pm

Followed back :-)

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Madeline @ Food Fitness and Family August 2, 2012 at 7:50 pm

SO excited to see what everyone has to say since I could be entering the realm of working moms soon … in the form of being a full-time PA student. SO I am definitely going to be keeping an eye out for these ;)
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Lisa August 2, 2012 at 10:50 pm

Yaay :-) I hope they help you!

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Miranda @ Biting Life August 2, 2012 at 8:57 pm

This is such a wonderful idea! I’m not a working mom (or even a mom at all), but I can really appreciate how important this is to you and will be to other moms like you. Can’t wait to read these stories :)

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Lisa August 2, 2012 at 10:49 pm

Thanks so much!

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